【西藏六十年】西藏日喀则居民家里的两间客厅:一间藏式风情 一间回族风格|亚洲人成在线观看
近日,中新社记者跟随“辉煌60载 魅力新西藏”集中采访活动来到西藏日喀则市江洛康萨社区,在居民马尕东家里,二楼两间风格迥异的客厅格外引人注目:一间浓郁的藏族风情,另一间则是典型的甘肃临夏回族风格。楼下,是他与藏族妻子扎西拉宗共同经营的藏装批发零售店。马尕东是一名来自甘肃省临夏回族自治州的回族汉子,1988年,20岁时投奔亲戚来到日喀则,在此生活、经商已逾三十载。
三十多年的共同生活,让两种文化在这个家庭深度交融。扎西拉宗熟练掌握了临夏方言,马尕东的藏语更是地道。提及初到时的艰辛,马尕东对社区邻里给予的帮助满怀感激:“藏族老百姓特别善良,困难时经常给我送吃的、送水果、送热水。”他特别提到曾遇到过好房东,见他“辛苦得很,那么远来”,曾减免数月甚至半年的房租。
两间客厅,承载着两个民族的文化习惯;一个家庭,见证了跨越民族的深情厚谊与共同奋斗。马尕东与扎西拉宗的故事,是西藏日喀则各民族交往交流交融、共居共学共事共乐的一个生动缩影。
记者 王世博 赵朗
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