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###shetaikuaizenmeban：yingduizaoxiedeshiyongzhinanzaoxieshixuduonanxingzaixingshenghuozhongkenenghuizaoyudewenti，zhideshizaixingjiaoguochengzhongwufakongzhishejingdeshijian，daozhixingjiaoshijianguoduan，wangwanghuigeigerenjibanlvdailaikunrao。mianduizheyiwenti，lejieyuanyinbingcaiquxiangyingduiceshifeichangzhongyaode。shouxian，zaoxiedechengyinkeyifenweixinliyinsuheshengliyinsu。xinliyinsubaokuojiaolv、yali、jinzhangdengqingxuwenti，kenengshinanxingzaixingshenghuozhongchanshengguodadexinlifudan，congeryingxiangshejingkongzhi。shengliyinsuzekenengshejijisushuiping、shenjingxitongjishengzhiqidemingandudengfangmian。lejiezijiqingkuangdegenyuan，youzhuyuzhidingheshideyingduicelve。qici，gaishanxingshenghuozhiliangdefangfaduozhongduoyang。yixiashiyixieyouxiaodejianyi：1.**xinlifudao**：ruguozaoxieshiyoujinzhanghuojiaolvyinqide，zixunzhuanyexinliyishenghuoxingzhiliaoshikeyibangzhuhuanjiexinlifudan，tishengxinxin。2.**yanchijiqiao**：caiyongyixiejiqiaolaikongzhishejingshijian，liru“zanting-jiya”fa。zaijiejinshejingshizantingdongzuo，qingqingjiyayinjinggenbu，daiyuwangjianruohouzaijixu。3.**huxilianxi**：zaixingjiaoguochengzhong，baochishenhuxinenggoubangzhufangsongshenxin，jiangdixingfendu，youzhuyuyanchangxingjiaoshijian。4.**shiyonghuanshichanpin**：shimianshangyouyixiezhuanweiyanchishejingshejidewaiyongpenwuhuoningjiao，nenggoujiangdiyinjingmingandu，dadaoyanshixiaoguo。5.**xunqiuyiliaobangzhu**：ruguoyishangfangfaxiaoguobujia，jianyijiuyi。zhuanyeyishengkenenghuigenjuqingkuangkaijuyixieyaowuhuotuijianqita#(#)#(#)#(#)射(she)太(tai)快(kuai)怎(zen)么(me)办(ban)：(：)应(ying)对(dui)早(zao)泄(xie)的(de)实(shi)用(yong)指(zhi)南(nan)早(zao)泄(xie)是(shi)许(xu)多(duo)男(nan)性(xing)在(zai)性(xing)生(sheng)活(huo)中(zhong)可(ke)能(neng)会(hui)遭(zao)遇(yu)的(de)问(wen)题(ti)，(，)指(zhi)的(de)是(shi)在(zai)性(xing)交(jiao)过(guo)程(cheng)中(zhong)无(wu)法(fa)控(kong)制(zhi)射(she)精(jing)的(de)时(shi)间(jian)，(，)导(dao)致(zhi)性(xing)交(jiao)时(shi)间(jian)过(guo)短(duan)，(，)往(wang)往(wang)会(hui)给(gei)个(ge)人(ren)及(ji)伴(ban)侣(lv)带(dai)来(lai)困(kun)扰(rao)。(。)面(mian)对(dui)这(zhe)一(yi)问(wen)题(ti)，(，)了(le)解(jie)原(yuan)因(yin)并(bing)采(cai)取(qu)相(xiang)应(ying)对(dui)策(ce)是(shi)非(fei)常(chang)重(zhong)要(yao)的(de)。(。)首(shou)先(xian)，(，)早(zao)泄(xie)的(de)成(cheng)因(yin)可(ke)以(yi)分(fen)为(wei)心(xin)理(li)因(yin)素(su)和(he)生(sheng)理(li)因(yin)素(su)。(。)心(xin)理(li)因(yin)素(su)包(bao)括(kuo)焦(jiao)虑(lv)、(、)压(ya)力(li)、(、)紧(jin)张(zhang)等(deng)情(qing)绪(xu)问(wen)题(ti)，(，)可(ke)能(neng)使(shi)男(nan)性(xing)在(zai)性(xing)生(sheng)活(huo)中(zhong)产(chan)生(sheng)过(guo)大(da)的(de)心(xin)理(li)负(fu)担(dan)，(，)从(cong)而(er)影(ying)响(xiang)射(she)精(jing)控(kong)制(zhi)。(。)生(sheng)理(li)因(yin)素(su)则(ze)可(ke)能(neng)涉(she)及(ji)激(ji)素(su)水(shui)平(ping)、(、)神(shen)经(jing)系(xi)统(tong)及(ji)生(sheng)殖(zhi)器(qi)的(de)敏(min)感(gan)度(du)等(deng)方(fang)面(mian)。(。)了(le)解(jie)自(zi)己(ji)情(qing)况(kuang)的(de)根(gen)源(yuan)，(，)有(you)助(zhu)于(yu)制(zhi)定(ding)合(he)适(shi)的(de)应(ying)对(dui)策(ce)略(lve)。(。)其(qi)次(ci)，(，)改(gai)善(shan)性(xing)生(sheng)活(huo)质(zhi)量(liang)的(de)方(fang)法(fa)多(duo)种(zhong)多(duo)样(yang)。(。)以(yi)下(xia)是(shi)一(yi)些(xie)有(you)效(xiao)的(de)建(jian)议(yi)：(：)1(1).(.)*(*)*(*)心(xin)理(li)辅(fu)导(dao)*(*)*(*)：(：)如(ru)果(guo)早(zao)泄(xie)是(shi)由(you)紧(jin)张(zhang)或(huo)焦(jiao)虑(lv)引(yin)起(qi)的(de)，(，)咨(zi)询(xun)专(zhuan)业(ye)心(xin)理(li)医(yi)生(sheng)或(huo)性(xing)治(zhi)疗(liao)师(shi)可(ke)以(yi)帮(bang)助(zhu)缓(huan)解(jie)心(xin)理(li)负(fu)担(dan)，(，)提(ti)升(sheng)信(xin)心(xin)。(。)2(2).(.)*(*)*(*)延(yan)迟(chi)技(ji)巧(qiao)*(*)*(*)：(：)采(cai)用(yong)一(yi)些(xie)技(ji)巧(qiao)来(lai)控(kong)制(zhi)射(she)精(jing)时(shi)间(jian)，(，)例(li)如(ru)“(“)暂(zan)停(ting)-(-)挤(ji)压(ya)”(”)法(fa)。(。)在(zai)接(jie)近(jin)射(she)精(jing)时(shi)暂(zan)停(ting)动(dong)作(zuo)，(，)轻(qing)轻(qing)挤(ji)压(ya)阴(yin)茎(jing)根(gen)部(bu)，(，)待(dai)欲(yu)望(wang)减(jian)弱(ruo)后(hou)再(zai)继(ji)续(xu)。(。)3(3).(.)*(*)*(*)呼(hu)吸(xi)练(lian)习(xi)*(*)*(*)：(：)在(zai)性(xing)交(jiao)过(guo)程(cheng)中(zhong)，(，)保(bao)持(chi)深(shen)呼(hu)吸(xi)能(neng)够(gou)帮(bang)助(zhu)放(fang)松(song)身(shen)心(xin)，(，)降(jiang)低(di)兴(xing)奋(fen)度(du)，(，)有(you)助(zhu)于(yu)延(yan)长(chang)性(xing)交(jiao)时(shi)间(jian)。(。)4(4).(.)*(*)*(*)使(shi)用(yong)缓(huan)释(shi)产(chan)品(pin)*(*)*(*)：(：)市(shi)面(mian)上(shang)有(you)一(yi)些(xie)专(zhuan)为(wei)延(yan)迟(chi)射(she)精(jing)设(she)计(ji)的(de)外(wai)用(yong)喷(pen)雾(wu)或(huo)凝(ning)胶(jiao)，(，)能(neng)够(gou)降(jiang)低(di)阴(yin)茎(jing)敏(min)感(gan)度(du)，(，)达(da)到(dao)延(yan)时(shi)效(xiao)果(guo)。(。)5(5).(.)*(*)*(*)寻(xun)求(qiu)医(yi)疗(liao)帮(bang)助(zhu)*(*)*(*)：(：)如(ru)果(guo)以(yi)上(shang)方(fang)法(fa)效(xiao)果(guo)不(bu)佳(jia)，(，)建(jian)议(yi)就(jiu)医(yi)。(。)专(zhuan)业(ye)医(yi)生(sheng)可(ke)能(neng)会(hui)根(gen)据(ju)情(qing)况(kuang)开(kai)具(ju)一(yi)些(xie)药(yao)物(wu)或(huo)推(tui)荐(jian)其(qi)他(ta)